I decided I would try to start off my day with a visit to the Kanda shrine in Akihabara. It is a Shinto shrine about a 20 minute walk from my accommodation and once again, was quite busy. I had planned to request a goshuin from this location but when I saw that it was a pre-written separate page goshuin I decided to move on and explore other places instead. I am not a huge fan of goshuin pages that have to be glued into my book unless they are special edition ones that take an extra long time for the priests/monks to prepare. So I decided I would circle back toward the end of my trip if I had room in my book.
I took a 25ish min stroll from here then toward the Ueno park area (stopping along the way for a snack) where I re-visited the Shinobazuno Pond – which is full of lotus plants. I have always ever visited during the time of year when they are in full bloom and there was something of a different kind of beauty to see them in the phase of life cycle when they are buried in the mud.
There is an island in the middle of the pond where the Shinobazunoike Bentendo temple is located. Here I stopped to purchase two pet health charms for Dante and Dmitri – they were blessed for pet health and traffic safety and designed to be worn on the collar. I also received my first goshuin of the day in my book and discovered that this was the 5th and final stop of a one-day walking pilgrimage of temples in the Ueno park area. I decided this would be my quest, although I would just do it in reverse since I had already started at the end.
My next stop was #4 – up the hill to the Kiyomizu Kannon-do Temple. Here they have trained a tree into this circular shape so that standing at the main entrance you can look down the hill and see the Shinobazunoike Bentendo temple down below in the middle of the pond.
This Temple is probably the biggest and most well-known temple in the park – it is also closest to the main train station as well. This was also the shortest walking distance between two temple spots that I encountered on this little quest.
Stop #3 consisted of collecting 2 goshuin from one location. This was the Ueno Daibutsu Shrine. The original temple was destroyed years ago by an earthquake. I believe the body was used for materials in the war but they were able to save the face and the very top of the temple spire and they just keep these two items on the top of a small hill in an open air temple space.
Stop #2 Was a tough one to find, and quite a distance away. The maps they had up around didn’t have very clear markers, were all in kanji, and not to scale – so I kept taking turns far earlier than they needed to be taken. The name of the temple is Kanei-ji Kaishan Hall – there are two separate halls and I ended up at the Kaishan Hall, although there is also the Rinnoden hall. I did not know about the Rinnoden hall until later and I just told myself it’s the intent that counts at the end of it.
This temple ground is dedicated to warding off plague so you can imagine that it has been very busy for the last few years.
The final #1 stop was a bit of a hike as I didn’t want to backtrack the way I had already gone and wanted to see new things – instead I walked behind the national museum. My map wanted me to walk through what looked like a school grounds which I didn’t feel comfortable doing so I took a longer loop around and eventually I ended up at the main Kaneiji Temple grounds and the Konponchu-do Temple where I completed my official pilgrimage. The monk flipped through my book to look at the stamps I had collected and congratulated me and placed an additional little paper talisman in my book for completion. I also sat in the temple for an extra 15 mins to just breathe for a bit at the end of the journey.
At this point I was ready for another snack, so I hopped on the metro and made my way back to Asakusa to get that melon pan that I wasn’t able to get the day before. I inhaled it with gusto too quickly to remember to try taking a photo, but it was super satisfying. Then I decided I would be brave and visit a brand new place, the Zozo-ji Buddhist Temple. It is also super close to Tokyo Tower which I have not visited before in all my other trips to Japan.
I arrived an hour before the evening service was scheduled to begin so I decided to visit the temple office for goshuin request and then wander the grounds for a while. I came back when I heard the pre-chanting begin and then sat to experience the service.
After this I walked up to the Tokyo tower. I was considering going up the tower today to see the city view at night. It would have been a very good evening for it since it was clear – I was also hungry and there were a lot of shops and places to eat inside of the tower. There is also a shrine at the top of the tower where I read I could get a goshuin – although a paste in the book kind of goshuin… but special edition for new years at least!
I decided I was too tired to take on a new series of tasks and instead headed back toward my hotel. I picked up an omurice to eat at my hotel and tanked out pretty early. Next update will have a brief summary of Wednesday since it was fairly uneventful, and then more detail on Thursday when I got to attend the Sumo Grand Championship Tournament!
After the conclusion of my matches in the professional division, I still had a good chunk of daylight left since my division was one of the first ones of the day to run. I decided that I would make use of it by attempting to visit a shrine in Harajuku for a limited edition temple seal book that I wished to purchase. Temple seal (Goshuin) collecting is one of my favorite side quests to do in Japan. When I visit a temple or shine, I can go to the office and request for the priest/priestess place the temple seal in my book via red stamps and hand brush stroke calligraphy ink. Each shrine and temple have their own unique seal. It is something small but memorable to collect, and also it gets me out of my comfort zone, interacting with people, and into different neighborhoods to explore more.
That said, I did completely forget of course that it was a Sunday which is prime time for Japanese street fashion parade crowd times in Harajuku. I was jet-lagged, exhausted from competing that morning, still dealing with a residual migraine, weighted down with my sweaty gear bag, and probably not at my best for stepping off the metro and gazing down into what I affectionately refer to as the “sea of people” or just “nope” that is officially named Takeshita street on a weekend.
I walked past the entrance of the main street, which would be the most direct route to the Togo shrine but I decided to opt for a side street approach instead. I ended up meandering a bit and walked past this small curated garden, then doubled back and decided to give it a stroll through in order to help relax and decompress myself.
I discovered a small center within it that was hosting a free art exhibition as well displaying various art pieces – no photos allowed but it was quite a lovely experience to stumble upon and I am so glad I took the time to just enjoy a nice meander!
I did loop back around to my starting point and then had to wander back to get to the shrine entrance again. I made it up the side entrance and then saw the huge crowd of people and was once again reminded that it was a weekend. I did not have the energy to complete my quest and noped it out of there. Instead on my way back to the station I ducked into a small crevice and grabbed myself a bottle of my favorite electrolyte beverage from one of the vending machines there. I don’t know what magic is in this bottle but it really is the best thing ever, and the name makes me smile.
At this point I realized that I really needed to get back to my hotel and lie down so that I could get some rest after the day’s events. My headache just wasn’t going away and there was really no need for me to be pushing myself since the rest of this trip was officially vacation with very little by way of actual itinerary. I had eaten a salmon bento box at the venue before I headed out but definitely needed to feed myself a bit more before going to sleep. I didn’t have the energy left for much interaction so enter the convenience store rescue. I went for familiar (to me) easily digestible items with the plan to get myself some real food to eat the next day. Milk tea, egg sandwich, pudding, and vitamin jelly pack for the win!
Monday:
I woke up pretty early Monday morning and started off with another milk tea before heading back to Harajuku to resume my quest. I still found the whole idea very overwhelming though and determined that since it was a much smaller and less familiar shrine I should instead backtrack to the other side of the station and instead first visit the Meiji-Jingu shrine – a very familiar, very large shrine that you walk through a large wooded park to reach. Even with the huge amounts of people present it still feels peaceful and I could feel myself getting into a groove.
One thing I quickly realized is that visiting so close to New Years means that I shouldn’t expect the normal type of tranquility that I usually experience when visiting shrines and temples in Japan. Most of the festivities were all over by the time I arrived in Tokyo, but people were still doing a lot of their New Years visits, and activity levels were much higher than what I had been accustomed to when visiting in the early autumn.
There was a box for placing your previous year’s amulets in so they can then be ceremonially burned later on. I had been holding on to mine since I had not been able to visit since 2019 so it was far past its prime – but we can only do what we can! My new amulet is for victory and perseverance, very appropriate methinks!
When I visit any sort of sacred space, whether it be a church, synagogue, mosque, shrine, temple, etc; I tend to minimize the photos I take unless I see the locals also taking photos, and what photos I do take I try to make sure that I do not take or share unavoidable photos of people, particularly of people in prayer/meditation. It’s the respectful thing to do. At this particular location it is such a hub of activity that it doesn’t feel disruptive to take photos so long as I avoid being obnoxious
After getting myself oriented a bit at Meiji-Jingu, I made my way out their side entrance (making note of their new location for their Goshuin request line), and back towards the Togo Shrine. At this point though I was getting cold and hungry and I decided to stop at the cafe on the shrine grounds for a bowl of ramen. It was my first hot meal in Japan and it was pretty stinking amazing. The egg was hard-boiled but it was marinated and I could have eaten a bowl full of just those. The whole bowl of ramen was about $4 with the current exchange rate and while a pretty mid-level for Japan ramen, blew away the best ramen you’d ever get state side!
Now I finally made my way to the less crowded Togo Shrine where I then discovered that after all that wind up, the particular Goshuin book I was seeking was all sold out. Yes, cue the sad trombone womp womp sounds.
I decided to then backtrack to the Meiji-Jingu Shrine and purchase a Goshuin book from them. If I couldn’t get the limited edition one I was after, it made sense to get one from a place that I felt anchors me in Tokyo. They also issued me my first temple seal in my book there.
After this I felt like I finally had my feet under me and decided to jump on the train for a short ride to the Hie shrine. I unexpectedly arrived during the time they were busy burning the previous year’s amulets and was enjoying watching the process while I waited for the priestess to finish inking the shrine goshuin into my book. When I saw the locals taking photos and video of the burning process I took that as a cue it was okay to take photos as well.
This shrine is a bit out of the way on top of a hill but became popular when people discovered that one of the entrances was lined with red torii gates and it became a hot photo spot. I snapped a quick photo on my way out but didn’t feel like waiting around to get one without people in it – I’ve got that photo in my memory card already from previous visits and really needed to grab some water.
After grabbing some water and a quick snack, I decided to head to the Toyakawa Inari Betsuin Shrine that was fairly nearby. It was another Shinto shrine – this one a new one I had not visited before. It was probably the largest one in Tokyo I have ever visited specifically dedicated to Inari. Originally the goddess of harvest and now associated with overall prosperity, you will see her messenger foxes quite frequently if you ever visit Japan.
As it was a completely new place it was of course overwhelming and I took my time with it. As an autistic individual I’ve learned to give myself time and space to explore new things in my own way – I take in and appreciate the feel of a place first before I start looking at things visually and with other senses. I probably sat for about an hour before I started actually moving around and (from an outside onlookers point of view) taking it in. This is one reason why I prefer to travel alone especially my first visit somewhere, so that I can really experience places fully the way my brain does best. The second visit to a place I can happily do so with company.
It was a lovely place to visit and relax in. After paying my respects I visited the main temple office to request a goshuin in my book and then went on my way. I was getting pretty tired at this point, but it was still only mid-afternoon and I was trying to power through the jet lag and cold as much as possible and decided I would take the train over to the Asakusa area and try to find a particular sweet bread shop that I have dreamed of since my last visit in 2019.
The shop was unfortunately closed for the day by the time I arrived, so I just made a mental note to return the next day for my prize and then strolled to the adjacent Senso-ji Temple – my first Buddhist temple of the trip. This is the oldest temple in Tokyo and enshrines the Kannon – the Bodhisattva of Mercy. A huge marketplace has grown around the temple over the years and you could easily spend a week or more exploring this neighborhood. Senso-ji is also one of those places where you just give up about not having people in your photos. It’s just that busy!
At practically all temples and shrines you will see pieces of paper tied to trees, poles, and strings. These are the fortunes that are drawn by lot at the temples that are, shall we say, less than fortunate. If you draw a bad fortune you then fold it up and tie it in these designated areas. These bad fortunes are then taken by the priests and ritually burned to dispel the bad luck so it does not follow you.
At Senso-ji I drew a very bad fortune this year and when I went to tie it up, the horizontal pole came lose and I had to fumble to catch it quickly so the entire rack did not go flying across the hall. I hope they have strong prayers and hot fire for that level of bad juju!
After that encounter, I went over to the temple office to visit the monks and request a goshuin for my book. The office was in the same location as before and despite the crowds outside I was quite surprised to find no line at all – especially after my day of crowded shrines!
After leaving the office, I was contemplating trying to go out to eat but I was fading really fast and the sun was setting, so I decided to go back to my room and just grab something quick and easy to eat on my way back. I was going to stick with familiar (egg sandwich again?) but something caught my eye and made me double back my steps on my way to the train station. It was a katsu shop that had pre-made premium katsu sandwiches for sale. I decided to grab one since I felt like I was depending on the convenience store failsafe a little bit too much (although admittedly their food quality tops most US restaurants).
Of course after all this talk about my goshuin collecting for the day, I can’t close out this update without showing you my collection for the day now can I?
Next update I’ll be getting to the Ueno Park Pilgrimage Adventures!
I have had an incredible year so far! I’ve visited six countries, been inside two world wonders, and brought home two international gold medals (Abu Dhabi Grand Slam and Mexico National Pro). I’m back to full time training, and can actually afford to eat properly again.
I hear the phrase “man you’re really lucky to get to do all that!”, but it’s not really luck. What looks like luck is really the past several years of quiet grinding that no one really sees. Why? Because it’s not shiny, it’s not pretty, and no one really cares about those boring details. It is the slow process of constantly shifting toward my goals that have gotten me into a place now where I am able to once again train full time, travel, compete around the world, and still be able to pay my bills.
If you want something badly enough, you will find a way to make it happen. It might take time but if you stick to it in the shadows, it will eventually come to light and you will find yourself one day waking with the realization that you have been accomplishing goals set years ago.
Here are a few of my favorite photos from this year so far.
Dancing to greet the bride and groom at a wedding in India
It has been a very busy last few weeks! I am getting ready to compete at the IBJJF Nashville Open, and then leaving the week after that for the UAEJJF Tokyo Grand Slam event.
As of right now, I am registered for the master division at the Nashville Open. However, I have a team mate who may take over my spot and I’ll move to the adult division (I prefer it there anyhow!)
I am starting to stress a little bit over the lack of opponents signed up for the Tokyo Grand Slam. There are a good number of ladies signed up for the next weight class down, but I don’t think I could make 55 kg (121 lbs) without ending up in a hospital. A lot of jobs in Japan pay monthly at the end of the month, so I’m sure after payday there will be more people signing up! Worst case scenario, according to their guidebook purple belt ladies can be combined with the brown/black division; which would be a great opportunity for me to get a preview of things to come!
At any rate, this is my planned itinerary for the Japan trip.
July 22: Leave straight from work for the airport and catch the last flight of the day to L.A.
July 23: Depart from L.A. for Manila
July 24: Arriving in Manila in the evening, check into hotel and wander around for a few hours before passing out.
July 25: Depart Manila in the morning and arrive in Tokyo early afternoon. Check into hotel, shower, and walk around at an easy pace. Goal is to stay awake until at least 8 pm.
July 26: Take train to Kamakura, enjoy the beach and the local sights. Goal is to get enough sun to help reset my internal clock, without getting burnt.
July 27: Hike Mt. Takkao and just wander around in the mountains. Might get some Onsen action.
July 28: Weigh ins are this evening. Activity levels leading up to weigh ins will depend on how my weight is after the hiking adventure the previous day. After weigh ins, I will eat Okonomiyaki and rest.
July 29: Competition day – gonna kick some butt! After competing I will go get a Waygu beef bowl and then visit Monster Ice for some shaved ice desert.
July 30: Take train to Kawaguchiko area and check into new hostel. Explore the five lakes area and take in the scenery.
July 31: Get up early to catch the first bus to the Mt. Fuji 5th Station. Ascend at a leisurely pace and reach the summit mid-afternoon. Spend at least an hour at the summit before descending. Onsen time that evening.
August 1: Early afternoon departure flight from Tokyo to Manila. 4 hour layover before continuing on to L.A. – arriving late evening.
August 2: Flight back home to Nashville
August 3: Morning training, then back to work at my job in the afternoon. Caffeine may be required.
A few weeks after returning from this trip, I will be making an exciting career change. I have reactivated my Massage Therapy license and will be working out of my YMCA. I currently work at the front desk there and can’t be an employee and contractor at the same time – so I’ll be hitting the new gig full steam out the gate! My oldest nephew is planning to be visiting me around this time as well – so it will be an awesome month! So far I am planning to compete at the Master World Championships as well, but I will have to wait and see how business and finances are panning out around then.
Itzel and Mel met me up at my hotel and we made our way to the bus station to meet our driver. We almost missed him because I had no wifi to receive calls and I could not locate him. We were eventually wisked away on a 90 minute (or so) suv ride out into the desert.
We eventually reached a crossroad and sat inside while our driver let air out of the tires so that we could drive on the sand. He put on a playlist titled “awesome arabian music” and then the roller coaster began. It is very accurately called “dune surfing” because it feels just like that. Up and down and in circles around, and on these large sand dunes. Photos and videos do not do the experience credit… but I tried! Not a recommended experience if you have any history of motion sickness. I’m usually good, but even I was hitting my limit! Being out in the dunes really made me understand how the feel of Arabian music came to be – it just fits.
At one point he just stopped the car at the top of one of the dunes for a few minutes to try to fix his watch (the strap broke). We did a quick drive by of a camel farm before making our way to camp.
At the campsite, we did a (very) short camel ride and then proceeded to try our hands at sand surfing. I really don’t like the sensation of sand, so I was going to sit this one out. However, the other ladies were having so much fun I just had to try it. It resulted in this amazing video.
We then climbed another dune and took lots of sunset photos before proceeding to do Jiu Jitsu in the desert. Because why not?
We had an amazing buffet dinner while enjoying a showcase of traditional Arabian dance and then tried on some traditional dress and smoked some Shisha before it was time to catch our ride back to the city. The other ladies had to fly out early the next morning and I had to catch a bus to Dubai.
Dubai – Arrival:
The bus to Dubai was super easy to catch. I just went up to the ticket counter labeled “Dubai” and asked for one ticket. It only cost a couple bucks and a bus leaves every 15 minutes.
When I arrived at the Dubai bus station, I just walked over to the taxi stand and showed my destination to a driver and he took me to my new hotel. I went out to the grocery store and bought some food before turning in for the evening. After the previous day adventure, I was pretty beat and wanted to be fresh for exploring the following day.
Dubai – Explorer Day:
I woke up early and started off with hotel coffee as motivation to get myself going. My actual impulse was to just stay in, relax, and do nothing for the day – being a natural introvert made me less inclined to go face the unknown of the marketplaces… but I knew I would regret missing out on the experience. So I made my way downstairs and asked the concierge where I could go to purchase a metro card. He seemed perplexed that I turned down the hop-on-hop-off bus tour in favor of exploring on my own.
I took the bus until I appeared to be in the general area of the old souq areas of town and disembarked. I arrived just as most of the shops were opening – so I got to have a nice walk around before all the tourist buses arrived. The shop owners weren’t as aggressive as I thought they might be. I remember New York Chinatown as being worse. When I needed a break from them, I just found a group of tourists to pretend to be a part of for a few minutes before going my own way again. I did make a few purchases and had fun haggling in the back room. I know I probably paid more for my items than they were worth but it was a price I was okay with. I had fun and the shop got to make some profit as well. Win!
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After a couple of hours in the Souq area, I made my way on the metro to see the Burj Khalifa building. It is currently the tallest building in the world! I did not go inside it because the entry tickets were way outside of my budget – but I got some great photos of it and enjoyed the more modern side of Dubai a bit before making my way back to my hotel for the evening.
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Last Day:
My last day started out rather uneventful but ended amazingly! I checked out of my hotel and then sat in the lobby for a couple hours with the wifi until it was time for me to make my way to the bus station for the trip back to Abu Dhabi.
I had been planning to just go to the airport because my flight was rather early the next morning. However, a friend of one of my team mates (Hi Sidne!) decided to overwhelm me with hospitality. He picked me up from the bus station in Abu Dhabi after he got off work and took me to Jiu Jitsu class – where I finally felt like I fit in for the first time in days. After which he took me to a nice hotel, got me fed, and let me chill for a few hours before taking me to the airport for my flight.
In Conclusion:
This was an interesting trip – getting to compete at one of the most prestigious events in the world, seeing old friends, making new friends, and experiencing a brand new culture first hand. I will definitely return to compete again!
My next trip adventure will be Tokyo, Japan at the end of July for the UAEJJF Tokyo Grand Slam. Tickets are booked and registration is confirmed already – gonna earn myself some more ranking points and $, climb Mt Fuji (finally!), and see what new experience I can find to make myself a better person.
Day4 began with an early arrival at the competition venue. Since I am not a brown belt yet, I was not able to enter the competitor area to help my crew warm up, so I wandered into the spectator area and found some more of my Jiu Jitsu family to mesh with.
Usually at these multiple day events, I end up zoning out by the last couple of days. Not so here! I was so inspired and impressed by the matches that I stayed focused throughout the whole day. I was super proud of my friends and team mates who were competing today, and it only inspired me to keep getting better and come back stronger next year!
After everyone was done, our little group decided to mosey over to the Grand Mosque a short taxi ride away from the competition venue.
I had gotten a lot of questions from people about my visit to the Emirates. The top question I received was “don’t you have to wrap up and wear the scarf?” My response was, “No, I’m not muslim. I will however wear one if I visit a mosque – that’s just the respectful thing to do.” Just like doing the ritual cleansing before visiting a shrine in Japan – I need to respect the culture I have chosen to immerse myself into.
That rabbit trail aside, yes, they do have appropriate ladies apparel available at the entrances to the Grand Mosque. First I went through a small security screening and then I was directed toward the room where they had a long rack full of clothes available to lend. It was a bit chaotic in the room so I just grabbed one off the rack and put it on over my clothes and headed outside to meet the guys.
The mosque was breathtaking.
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Everything was in beautiful symmetry and I could feel the peacefulness of it, even in the throngs of fellow tourists who were wandering all over the place. It was a shoes off area as well, so it was nice to walk around in bare feet. We were there just before sunset and the lighting was amazing. At sunset, the call to prayer was sung and I just observed and soaked up the atmosphere.
Tips for visiting:
Remember you are visiting a sacred space for many people. Even if it is not a sacred space for you, be respectful as a visitor.
Don’t sit on the floor or on any steps.
Don’t walk in the central plaza. During the call to prayer, worshipers can walk on it on their way to the inner mosque. This does not apply to visitors and the security officers will stop you. (note examples in video)
Women need to keep their head covering on. Yes it can get warm when you are layering on the extra loaner abaaya. My recommendation is to dress appropriately from arrival and then you will not need to use the loaner.
There are descriptions of proper attire for men and women available on the mosque website. One of the guys in my group had to roll down his shorts to a more acceptable length.
Day 5:
This began with a taxi ride to my friends hotel where we all met up and ordered a taxi for a ride to the beach. A good number of the beaches in Abu Dhabi are private beaches for hotel guests only – however there are public beaches available. We were dropped off at Corniche beach which is for families. It cost about $3-4 USD to get in and then you can rent an umbrella and buy food and snacks there.
It was like something straight from those fancy travel brochures that I sometimes drool over longingly. We hung out in the water for a while and then relaxed under the umbrellas.
After a few hours at the beach, our group split up with the guys heading back to the hotel for a desert safari, and the ladies going to the competition venue to watch the black belt finals matches.
The Competition:
Words can not describe how inspiring it was to witness the whole package deal of the black belt finals at the World Pro. The quality of the venue and promotion was just beyond what I’ve ever seen before. And what you see up on the big screen (that’s not an insert!), is shown on nationwide television live and replay. I am definitely going to be returning next year to compete!
It was interesting that 2 out of 5 of the ladies brown/black belt divisions were won by brown belts. With the growth I have witnessed in ladies Jiu Jitsu the last several years, I imagine it will not be too long until the brown and black belts will be separated. It’s quite recent that purple belts are separated from the brown and black belts – and those divisions stand on their own now.
After the last match, Itzel and I were quite hungry and went back to my hotel to try the dinner buffet. It was about $30 USD (he gave us the discount for first visit) and it was VERY good and worth it! I really loved all the little deserts that we proceeded to rank. I liked the carrot cake and flan best! Itzel went back to her hotel and I tanked out. It would be a long day the next day for me – changing hotels and then departing for the desert safari. Coming up next post!
So I’ve already shared my perspective on the competition (read it here!) so now I will share a little bit about all the rest of the stuff surrounding the competition.
Finishing Day 1: After I competed, I went back to my hotel room. I was soooo hungry, but my need for sleep won out over the need for food. So I just downed a bunch of water and passed out from about 5 pm until midnight. I then looked at the clock, rolled over, and went back to sleep until 5:30 am. I did have the foresight to purchase food from a grocery store on the way to my hotel, so I inhaled a bunch of fruit and a rice biryani.
Day 2: My friend, Itzel, invited me to come train that morning with her. She needed to get some light rounds in with someone who wouldn’t break her – so I took a cab to meet up with her at the officers club where all the cool kids (aka black belts) were housed. They had matted out what looked to be a racketball court and it was just an open mat of awesomeness. I saw a lot of people I knew and surprised a few team mates (I’m talking to you DJ and Mike) who did not know I was competing. Of course, it was the black belt hotel so I was basically a minnow in a room full of killer sharks. And of course I loved every minute of it! After training we had food and just hung out for a bit before I started getting sleepy (stupid jet lag), and decided to take a cab back to my hotel.
Side Note: taxis in Abu Dhabi and Dubai are super convenient and cheap! I’d pay under $5 for a 15 minute ride. Cheap even by my standards! Most all of the drivers speak a good amount of English and I would just show them on google maps where I wanted to go and then off we went. The drivers generally do not talk with you other than to verify where you want to go and then to tell you the cost at the end of the ride.
Day 3: I met up with Itzel at the competition venue (we were hang out buddies this trip). She wanted to watch the country qualifiers because she would be competing against the winner on the following day. This was also her day for weigh ins so we waited around for that and met up with a few other friends who were also weighing in. She was good for weight and then we went and grabbed a bit of food from the trucks outside the venue. I got a shawarma – what kind I have no idea. I just told them to make it good because I was hungry. They delivered!
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If you are a lady competing in Abu Dhabi, you are required to wear a bodysuit’esque style undergarment under your gi for weigh ins and competition. I squeaked through with just a rash guard, but apparently if your rash guard rides up you will be disqualified on the spot. The organization does have approved one piece suits available that you can purchase, and I know a lot of the ladies choose to wear a one piece bathing suit. So… bring on the wedgies!
So closes this chapter. For days 4 and 5, I will talk about competition results for everyone, a visit to the Grand Mosque (yes, I wore the veil), the grand finale of black belt matches on the big stage, a beach visit, and some cultural observations. I’ll then devote an entire post just to the desert safari adventure before moving on to Dubai. So until then, here’s a teaser!
I just made it back to the states after a very interesting 10 days in the United Arab Emirates. I will work on a few other blog posts detailing some of the non-competition experiences (food, desert safari, shopping in local markets, etc) – for now I will just be sharing about my adventures leading up through the competition event itself. So… prepare yourself for informal story time!
I booked my flight before the schedule was solidified, so I ended up arriving in the Abu Dhabi airport at around 3 am local time on the day I was to compete. No day before weigh ins for me – so I was very hungry and thirsty. Female hormones decided to time their surge during this critical stage, so I did not have the planned wiggle room for my weight.
I hung out at the airport for about 5 hours, charging my devices and staring with thirst envy at everyone else who happened to take a sip from a water bottle in my vicinity. Occasionally, I would stroke my bag of sports drinks and whisper a “soon my precious, soon”. When time finally came for me to make my way to the venue for weigh ins, I purchased a metro card and made my way out to the bus stop along with my suitcase and bag. I missed the proper metro stop and therefore ended up walking about 1.5 miles in the desert heat, dragging my suitcase over cobblestone (R.I.P suitcase). When I finally arrived at the competition venue and weighed in, I was a full pound under weight thanks to that desert stroll – so all’s well!
I had about 90 minutes before my division was set to begin, so I proceeded to down a bottle of electrolyted liquid and lie down with my feet up in the warm up area. At this point the giddiness began to kick in because I realized I had made it happen and I was really going to get to go out and compete.
My match was meant to be the 5th one in my division, but since it was the first match that the coordinator found, it got bumped to the first event of the day! So this means being escorted past the curtain out to the side of the mat while the tv commentators are talking and the crowd is starting to rumble in the background. I was grinning like a fool. So happy to be there after all the work I put in to make it happen. This was going to be me showing my best game.
Finally, the referee gives the motion to start the match and everything else fades away to a pinpoint of focus. I go from grinning fool to focused animal in the drop of a hand. My opponent came at me with fury and powerful technique. I responded instinctively, just doing what I know how to do (so many inversions!). When we reached 1 minute left I looked at the scoreboard and saw that I was up 2 advantage points and could coast the last bit if I wanted. However, that is how I missed out on a finals match in Cincinnati, so I kept going. My opponent knew she only had to pass my guard in order to advance to the next round and I could feel her determination and drive. Suddenly I saw an opening and managed to lock in a submission, rolling to mount to finish in the last 30 seconds of the match. It was honestly one of my proudest matches. It was a war from beginning to end with a worthy opponent whom I would love a chance to match up with again!
I was as elated and made my way back to the holding area when the adrenaline dump kicked in like it never has before. That along with the lack of sleep and recovery time hit all at once. I was very close to throwing up and had to lie down on the floor with my legs elevated. Thankfully since I ended up being the first match of the day, they had to process through the rest of my division before they came back to me again. It was a full 30 minutes before I could sit up without nearly blacking out and I have not been that close to backing out of a match before. However, I owed it to my first opponent to continue on and do my very best! So once I could sit up, I focused on projecting a strong solid front to any of my opponents who might be watching me. Just because I feel like I’m going to pass out, doesn’t mean I need to let people see that.
My name was called for my second match and I kept that mask on as I went out. I wish there was a triumphant resolution to this tale, but alas, I was immediately pulled into a triangle and had to tap to the pressure on my neck. I kept the mask on afterwards, thanked my referee and made my way back to find ice for my neck.
All in all, this was one of my favorite tournament experiences and it was an honor to participate in it! I also earned enough points to be ranked #6 in North America! I will be back. What I will do differently next time is just book a flight arriving much earlier so that I can have time to do the day before weigh ins and recover more completely. Mentally I was more focused than I have in the past year – I feel like I am starting to be confident in my game again. I will continue to improve and make myself better every day. My next goal will be to hit as many of the Grand Slam events as possible (Tokyo is in July), and also to wreck some havoc at Master Worlds.
At this time next week, I will be on my way to California for the IBJJF Pan Championship tournament! I’m right on track with my weight, have energy for days, and am really looking forward to closing out a division with my team mate, Katie! There will be a live stream available for all the matches, so when I get my details I will make sure to share them.
This will be my 6th time competing at the Pans. My goal is to compete in the adult divisions all the way through at least one year as a black belt. When I competed in Atlanta I had one of the girls react in shock to the fact I was in the adult division. I suppose 32 seems old to a 19/20ish year old!
Abu Dhabi
Today I got my plane ticket to the Abu Dhabi World Pro booked. This has been a Jiu Jitsu bucket list item for years – and I decided to just do it. Maximus Kimonos has been awesome enough to supply me with a white gi for use – along with some cool no gi stuff. Give them a look-see and mention my name to get a 10% discount. I can say the gi is super comfy and very light weight!
I’m not yet sure which of two possible days I would be competing at the World Pro. My flight gets me in too late for day before weigh ins the first day, but in time for the same morning weigh ins. Of course if I compete the second day I will be all good for the day before weigh ins. Lodging and my flight to NYC still need to be arranged, but one thing at a time!
Well first off, Merry Christmas to all! And if you aren’t the Christmas type, I hope you had a good day off from work!
The gyms were all closed yesterday, so I went to see the new Star Wars movie again with a team mate. Today it is back to the grind! BJJ gym is still closed today, but I am meeting up my regular drilling partner before heading off to my shift at work. Gotta get those reps in!
The current attack plan for the first few months of 2018 is:
January 15-22 – European Championships in Lisbon, Portugal.
I can only afford to be there for the days that I could possibly compete. Gotta get back to work by the 21st. At least jet lag doesn’t exist to me anymore for a Europe trip (after a few trips to Asia).
February 3 – Atlanta International Open
This is an easy day trip for my crew since it is only a 3ish hour drive from Nashville. I’ve kept my one day off from work as a Saturday – so I can make it easily to these day trip events without having to barter time off from work… I’ll be doing plenty of that already this year.
February 17 – Team Shawn Hammonds Team Training
One of the funnest events of the year! Last february we had over 30 black belts on the mat and so many people that it was just wonderful chaos! I was promoted to purple belt at the 2017 team training and I look forward to seeing all the promotions this next year!
February 24 – Mexico City International Open Gi and No Gi
Past experience has taught me that I need to arrive several days early in Mexico City – in order to adjust to the altitude. I haven’t worked out a flight yet, but it is on! Barring work putting their foot down (I have a pretty flexible job).
My concern here is whether there will be any purple belt ladies competing here or not. But I think it will work out! Plus it will be great to see friends again!
March 7-11 – Pan Championships in California
I’m waiting on the preliminary schedule to be released before I start thinking about booking a flight. Gotta go out there, smash, and then get back to work.
Since I am a part timer at work, I’m fairly flexible with time off. I just have to at least make an effort to find someone to cover my shift and I’m good to go. I’ll be making trips as short as possible though because I do need a cash flow to make all this happen. It’s a balancing act that I think I have finally gotten worked out!
I will hear from the Japanese Embassy in a few weeks about my application. But I’m not gonna just sit on my hands in the meanwhile! Gotta keep moving and trying to be a little bit better every day! (Except for yesterday… yesterday I ate half a pie)