I was worried at the beginning of the week that I might have overdone it for the first time.
At the seminar on Saturday – the day after my 12-week mark – I was the seminar guest instructor’s demo partner for techniques. Since it was all guard retention work, and my right/surgical leg is my lead leg, my surgical leg was getting wound up and working overtime for the entire 90-minute seminar. In addition I was drilling the moves myself too of course – because a gal’s gotta learn! It was spider guard details/variations to a shin guard dump sweep with some options for then coming up on top to control.
After all that I cocooned up for the rest of the weekend and did take my meloxicam that evening as well as Sunday night. My surgical hip joint itself feels okay, it’s just all the stabilizing muscles around it feel very tired and well worked over.
Monday
At physical therapy I reported to my PT what I did and she told me that as long as I was able to get out of bed the next morning without feeling pain, then it is fine. She wants me to keep doing more work and pushing it this next week since we are in the strength training and rebuilding portion of my rehab now.
I did feel some extra stiffness in my hip while warming up on the elliptical, but I did warm up in just a few minutes and it went away. I’ll have to make sure I’m not slacking off on mobility training while amping up strength – just to keep the stiffness at bay!
Exercise highlights this session: I got to do my straight leg raises over a 12-16ish inch block this time – I had plenty of clearance for that one thankfully while sitting upright on the table and I actually felt it activate my quads a bit more than I expected. For my leg press we kept me at 87# for the single leg since we increased that last week, but I added reps with my left leg while my right rested between sets (my right thigh has noticeably more muscle than my left now, trying to balance that out a bit). My pistol box squats were changed to 2×10 on each side, and then 3×10 of bodyweight squats with elevated heels.
I had a fun new movement to strengthen hip rotation! Just standing on one leg with it slightly bent and holding onto something about shoulder level, I keep my other leg slightly behind me as I allow myself to sink back and rotate on my hip first one way and then the other. It’s hard to describe but man does it feel good! Finally, I was taken out to the gym side of the clinic and put on the hamstring curl machine to do 3×10 on that. I elected to do 25# of fast curl and slow to lower reps. I could have done heavier weight without the slow uncurl, but I’m rebuilding so I’ll start out low.
By the time I got home I was ready for a nap but plugged into my work computer instead, and then proceeded to roll onto my belly and keep everything stretched out as it cooled off. I went to Jiu Jitsu class that evening and was able to drill de la riva guard sweeps without any problems, including a hook sweep using my right leg as the hook to sit up on/over. I skipped out on sparring rounds as per my usual but felt pretty good overall – it was definitely a jam-packed day!
Tuesday
The real test of Monday was how I felt waking up Tuesday morning – and I woke up feeling just fine. I had no soreness, just a little muscle tiredness from the energy expenditure. I noticed a little more tightness in the deeper abdominal muscles on my right side, so for my morning stretching routine I gave some extra time to that area and my hip flexors – making note to take a few extra breaks from sitting during the workday.
In class that morning we drilled the same move that was taught at the seminar on Sunday – it was good to review the movements! I did some super light free movement with one of our black belts for a couple of minutes during sparring time which felt pretty good although that’s the extent of what I was willing to attempt doing at that time. I had originally set myself the line of only drilling until the four-month mark, but my PT wants me to add more sport specific activity during the week, and I don’t know that I can do that without starting flow rounds.
I went over more focused stretches and strength exercises during evening competition classes. For strength training I did the heel elevated squats, standing hip rotators, pistol squats, single leg kettlebell balance drills, and a few others. I’m breaking a sweat now with my PT routine now which is good, although I have diverted almost entirely away from my routine listed on my app. I really need to remember next week to request an updated app routine from my PT. I get daily reminders to do my exercises and just click the button that I completed everything – I just modified everything up to a more intense exercise.
Wednesday
I did more stretching in the morning on Wednesday. I’ve been feeling a bit more overall soreness in my deep abdominal muscles on my right side (which are the main hip flexors) with the little extra push I’ve been doing in class this week stacked on top of the seminar and then the extra exercises in PT. I’m working to counter that with more stretching and belly time to keep it from becoming an active problem.
That evening I taught my usually scheduled ladies no gi class. I was able to demonstrate techniques from closed guard including options for maneuvering to a ghost armbar and then taking the back. I stayed for the advanced gi class afterwards and drilled for 30 minutes the techniques we learned at the seminar on Saturday – adding on a submission finish to the sweep (with the feedback from the class instructor). I then proceeded to watch sparring for the rest of class and mused over if I could start adding flow rounds in this week or not.
Thursday
New achievement unlocked in class this morning! I was able to be comfortable with drilling the move and also having it drilled on me. We are still working on de la riva guard sweeps which are primarily done on my lead leg – which was the one which was operated on. So it does feel pretty good to feel stable enough to be able to let people sweep me off that lead leg – even if it is only during light drilling practice.
I got really frustrated in morning class however because my knee had a minor subluxation. It’s a pretty common occurrence for all of my joints and usually doesn’t cause me any harm beyond some temporary inflammation, but it’s just an annoying reminder of my need to be hypervigilant at all times. I ended up not staying for evening class and opted to go home to rest my knee and test out the new red/infrared light mini panel that my ortho recommended for collagen/inflammation. It did seem to have a soothing affect, so I’ll add it to my evening joint care routine.
Friday – The 13 Week Mark
Today is the day that marks 13 weeks since surgery and it was another day of mostly me working from home. It was marked however by the second of our team association ladies competition class in the evening – I decided to test myself to see how many of the drills I was able to execute safely. The short answer was that I was able to safely do all of them myself, although there was one of them that I was unable to safely have done on me (rolling back take) due to the impact and twisting motion around my hip.
I was getting really hyped up and feeling frisky enough that I was about to throw caution to the wind and jump in to spar lightly when coach caught my eye and said a quick “you’re not ready yet”. He usually lets me do whatever I want (because I’m usually trustworthy), but he’s the coach for a reason and will put his foot down when needed.
Conclusions
I am struggling right now to find the balance for what more I should be doing. I know I don’t want to overdo it and hurt myself, but I also don’t want to sell myself short and be doing less than I could be doing. Erring on the side of caution has been the theme of my recovery and it seems to have been working in my favor thus far, although at this stage of my recovery it is driving me a little crazy. I do for the most part feel fairly normal and capable of doing most of the things I want to do.
Sticking to the plan is probably the best right now still. Who knows? Maybe when I see my surgeon again in 2 1/2 weeks he will tell me to go ahead and amp it up since it’s the 4 month mark and my labrum is all good for impact? I can wait until then at least to see what he says about adjusting my training plans at any rate!
I dove right into it this weekend by taking my first bike ride since surgery on Saturday. My dog was out of food and the pet store that makes his is just a mile and a half away from my apartment – which seemed like a good distance for a test ride after getting the okay from my surgeon for outdoor biking.
I got to meet my new physical therapist on Monday! She’s taking over just at the interval where I’m switching gears to focusing on strengthening more so she started by adding some more strength/stability training to my program. It was a good balance as I was not sore the next day and didn’t feel inflamed, but still managed to get my heart rate up a little bit. Here is the new stuff:
I was really tired by that afternoon and really wanted to take a nap, but instead I got a ride over to the Jiu Jitsu academy to watch the evening training class. I’m glad I was able to make it in because we had yet another belt promotion this evening, this time it was Jackson getting his purple belt! He is one of my favorite training partners and I look forward to getting to roll with him again once I’m allowed! (It seems like all my favorite people are getting promoted lately)
Friday the 19th we had our first ladies’ competition training class. It was a joint training class open to our other local affiliate academy ladies. It ended up just being the ladies from our local academy this first time around, but they absolutely killed it and the overall consensus was that it was some of the best training ever. We are going to have it at least once a month and shoot for twice if possible. Hopefully the ladies from our other local academies will get on board but if they don’t that’s fine – we had a great time anyhow and I look forward to joining in myself in a few months.
I recovered from my flare up thankfully in time for my physical therapy session on Monday. We added more weight to my leg press (3×10 at 150#) and then dropped it to add single leg press (3×10 at 75#). I had a new standing variation of a clamshell where I had my foot propped on the wall while balancing on the other while using the resistance band, and we modified the banded bird-dog to accommodate my tactile ick to the touching the band with my hand and we did a bird-dog row on the table – which honestly I found much more difficult a move anyhow (imagine doing a “hands and knees” bench row while holding your opposite leg up parallel to the floor while doing your row). To my “step ups” we added a “tap down” in front – just barely tapping my heel to the floor in front of me off of a 4-inch box.
Tuesday morning I drilled again in class. I did a few more reps of various moves from the turtle bottom position. I am once again reminded how blessed I am to have great teammates who are happy to be a part of my recovery process and help me drill movements even when I’m not 100%. This was a pretty special class as well because coach promoted Jeremy and Denaro to their purple belts. They’ve both been training since they were smaller than me, a fact that didn’t really hit home until I took a photo with both of them and realized how much they have grown over the years, it got me a little bit emotional! I did my PT exercises during the evening competition class. My muscles were a bit sore but not to a level that it might cause any compensation movement patterns so it was all good.
Friday is officially 10 weeks post op! I decided to mark it by running myself through a slow careful yoga flow session – which I haven’t done since before surgery. It went pretty well even though I just did the opening movements. It was a work from home day since Fridays are a bit chaotic for coordinating rides to and from the office, and my stamina for bike riding is not road ready (especially for around Nashville traffic). I’m doing short sidewalk bike rides around my neighborhood on the weekends to work on my stamina as the weather permits.
No x-rays this visit, I just reported to the intake nurse how PT was going and that my range of motion was doing well enough that we had already changed gears to focusing mostly on stability and strength already. My surgeon popped into the office shortly after she took down the info. I told him my PT said I was on track and ahead of schedule so far and he said to hop up on the table so he could verify everything.
I got to start off on the elliptical machine for the first time this week in PT. I only got 5 minutes on it and the first few mins felt a little awkward in the joint but about halfway in it started feeling really good. I think next time I may sneak in early just to get some extra time on it (or play on it afterwards while I wait for my uber home).
Tuesday morning the techniques were back takes that I did not feel confident I could do with the allowable movements I have in my card deck, but coach said I could just walk the room and jump in on people to rep moves of things I could do safely. So, I practiced clock chokes and a few rolling finishes that involved me rolling shoulder first. Everything felt really good, and I did not feel any pressure on my hip at any of the movement angles. I waited until later in the afternoon and put myself through a light version of my PT circuit as well and then watched our evening comp class get smeared into grease spots on the mat. I did take video of the technique being taught in the morning, and then video of what I actually did so that I can show my PT next week how I was modifying in class in order to participate.
We had a guest instructor visiting from San Diego who taught our 5:30 no gi and 6:30 gi classes for us. The drill he taught was using the underhook to escape side control and various methods of back takes to sweeps for no gi, and for Gi class going to deep half guard and working sweep options from there. I was able to do the no gi drills with skilled drilling partners who were able to position themselves to keep all pressure off me (lightly interactive grappling dummies), but I was not stupid enough to attempt any deep half guard positions in the gi class – so I just enjoyed watching!
Normal day at work, with a break for me to jump into the 10:30 Jiu Jitsu class. I did just a couple reps of one of the moves demonstrated. It was an armbar attack using your legs to hook the near side arm when you’re in turtle top position. I was able to safely do it on one side (surgical hip down) but I wasn’t gonna try to do it on the other side with my surgical hip doing all the hooking and pressure. The next phase was to do a back take when your partner defends by tucking their arm which I just watched since I didn’t want to pull someone’s weight over top my surgical hip.
Monday started off with warming up on the stationary bike for the first time which made me feel pretty awesome! Then back in the main room my PT told me she was going to push my range of motion, which made me nervous because I had flashbacks to painful months of attempting to push flexion back into my knee post op (it healed stiff by surgeon’s design). Thankfully since this procedure didn’t require ligament immobilization/support for an extended period of time, my range of motion hasn’t suffered too badly.
Up until this point I had been sticking to the post-op hip movement restrictions since I hadn’t been told otherwise, other than the end of last week when I was told I could start bending past 90 degrees if comfortable. So, she sat me down at the end of our session and clarified for me that those post op restrictions are pretty much lifted and now I’m at the phase where movements are allowed, provided that they are controlled, not excessively uncomfortable, and no impact. Still no aggressive isolated hip flexor engagement, single foot per stairs on ascent/descent, etc. Thursday we did start adding some shallow straight leg lifts to start strengthening my hip flexors again, and also added a band around my ankles for my standing hip extension/flexion/abduction reps.

I’m a bit slow to post this update (I usually post it on a Friday but today is Sunday), but I wanted to wait and add on my Saturday adventure before posting. A friend came to visit and I was able to (slowly) walk all over our local farmers market. I brought my cane of course and it was exhausting, but I did it and had no pain – waking up this morning feeling just fine.
I started Monday morning in PT with my usual therapy routine and at the end we added weight bearing tests. First I stood at the edge of the table and just slowly shifted my weight from foot to foot “until it felt ok”. The first one felt like waking my hip up a bit but the second one felt pretty normal so then my therapist told me to do longer holds on my right (surgical)side. After a few reps of that she watched me while I changed to shifting my weight to my right foot and then lifting my left foot off the ground. At the first rep she said “Oh perfect! No hip drop at all! Do 10 reps and hold for 10.”
My boss picked up some supplies for me from the hardware store to repair my old wooden cane, so that’s going to be my project for the weekend! I took it into the back of our warehouse and got it structurally sound again, but now I need to sand it down and figure out what I’m going to do to finish it out and make it pretty again.
This made me realize how much my legs need the biofeedback of compression leggings. It’s a small thing but it really does help me feel so much better after spending over a month wearing baggy shorts. I have a lot of sensory issues that go along with my autism: temperature regulation, touch, etc. – and they are a protective barrier in that regard. I also get episodes of orthostatic hypotension, basically a circulation/blood pressure issue where they tell you to watch your fluids and electrolytes levels and I also tend to get swelling in my legs a bit – compression leggings help with the swelling. Finally, I also have a connective tissue disorder that affects everything, and the little extra bit of outer layer just sometimes feels like it’s just the tiniest ease of that burden.

I have worked from home this entire week, which has definitely been very beneficial for my hip recovery! I was also picked up twice to pop by the bjj academy for an evening class for some enrichment time as well.
Last Sunday I met up with a friend at the cafe in my neighborhood to grab a treat – there were no seats there I could use comfortably so we just strolled back to my apartment building and chatted for a few hours. After that I was picked up by some of the ladies so I could hang with them during the Sunday ladies BJJ class. I told them to start jogging for warmups and they unanimously rebelled against my authority – presenting the logic that I’m going to be pent up and angry when I get back on the mats anyhow, so it doesn’t matter if they make me mad at them now or not. I respect the logic and therefore am not angry. It was really nice to get out and see people I care about again after being locked away for two weeks!
Monday afternoon I got a text message from my coach to let me know that he had gotten back into town from the Jiu Jitsu world championship and was going to promote my teammate, Ray, that evening in class. I have known Ray since I first started training (he was in our kids’ program), and I told coach that if he didn’t find a way to get me over to the gym I would be severely upset and never let him forget it. He was super busy but knows I don’t raise a stink very often, so made the trip out to pick me up before class. It was pretty exhausting hanging around, but one hundred percent worth being there to celebrate. Congratulations Ray!
Tuesday was my first day going back into the office after over two weeks of working remotely from my apartment. The hardest hurdle for being in the office is trying to figure out how to handle the 8-5 office hours schedule when I’m not supposed to be sitting for extended periods of time – and I can only stand for so long really. We decided to try this setup using a comfy chair from a coworker’s office. It worked pretty well for the first half of the day but was getting pretty achy on the hip for the second half of the day and I ended up needing to be taken home a little bit early.
Here’s where it gets a bit tricky for me. Even pre-surgery I can’t drive myself due to a permanent disability. So, in order to get into the office, I need to get a ride into work. Usually, it works out to where a coworker or my coach is able to pick me up on their way in and then I hitch a ride home afterwards usually after evening jiu jitsu training since the academy is in the same building. I live fairly close by and seasonal biking is great when I’m uninjured! On off days I take an uber. Currently I’m unable to ride uber to and from work because I have to ride in the front seat (due to hip movement restrictions), and I am unable to juggle my crutches and my dog while safely getting myself in and out of an Uber. A friend driving me won’t mind holding Dmitri – but a random uber driver might not be so chill about it. So, I’m highly dependent on someone consistently being able to pick me up and drop me off for work.
So for today, Friday, I was working from home. In Nashville it is CMA fest weekend as well as several other big events in town, so we are going to be cancelling our usual ladies’ class this weekend because navigating the city is going to be a nightmare. I already had groceries delivered and am stocked up for the weekend. I have one more week of being guaranteed on full usage crutches – I was worried that I was wearing out the tips, so I bought some new ones. A friend of mine loaned me the crutches and I didn’t want to give them back to her entirely mangled so I figured she would appreciate them being a bit prettier than just standard gray.